How I Love You.

Make a copy of this page for your own use.

Circle the number that applies to you and your love for the other in your relationship.

The number will represent an estimate of the average over the last month.

This is intended to be a private personal assessment of your love given to the other person.

I am impatient with you.

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I am patient with you.
I am mean to you.

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I am kind to you.
I am cold about you.

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I am warm about you.
I boast about my value.

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I boast of your value.
I am only proud of me.

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I am proud of you.
I act rudely to you.

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I act politely to you.
I seek only good for me.

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I seek good for you.
You provoke me easily.

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You do not provoke me easily.
I value you as evil.

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I value you as good.
I cheer your injustice.

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I do not cheer your injustice.
I accuse you of lies.

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I congratulate you in truth.
I do not cover you.

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I cover you.
I never have faith in you.

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I always have faith in you.
I never confide in you.

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I confide all things with you.
I never endure anything for you.

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I endure all things for you.
I fail you again and again.

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I do not fail you.

Go to How I Am Commanded to Love You to finish the assessment.